Today I had a chat with two friends of mine on whatsApp and Facebook and they seemed to be going through difficult situations. As always I have got a positive feedback from them about how chatting with me relieved them.
So I have just decided to have an encouraging write up to whoever may be hurting. I may not be knowing the exact situation you are going through but I’m so sorry for you if you are feeling lonely, depressed or having suicidal thoughts. It may be a relationship breakup or a feeling of inadequacy. Whatever the case may be, just know it’s all for your own good even if you can’t see it yet (Romans 8:28).
First of all you need to have self-acceptance and stop counting on the people around you for joy and happiness. I know it’s hard to do but happiness should come from your heart. Can you try to be patient with yourself and replace those bad feelings with pride, even in small accomplishments? Begin appreciating yourself for any achievement you make.
Knowing about your indicators of depression or knowing personal indicators of rage and anger may be great but not good enough. They should propel you into action preferably talking about it with those close to you. You should also get involved with some community service, social or sporting club and try to interact with people physically. At times people on social media can be too picky and may not respond to your posts simply because they do not know you fully. As you interact with others, you will realize that great people who like you and care about your feelings do exist. You may also consider talking with a therapist or a counselor.
Just know that you can overcome your circumstances and achieve extraordinary success through determination, grit, and some bit of luck but inner happiness has to be the center of it all. To all going through difficult situations, be reminded that tough times do not last but tough people do. There is no situation that is permanent; even that will pass away. I will be praying for you to have peace of mind.
